Parental Blessings

4 09 2008

I sought the blessing of my (now)fiancee’s parents before popping the big question. And I’m so glad I did. The entire conversation was secretly recorded and you can listen to it here. Perhaps I should explain this ritual a little more, since it has of late become a less common practice. My intention was to state my intentions. The AoM website calls this ritual “Asking a Woman’s Father For Her Hand In Marriage” (a very helpful article, by the way).

Without reservation, I commend this tradition of seeking parental blessings to all men desiring the lifetime commitment of marriage. It was startling to hear myself say “I love Megan.” I didn’t expect it to be so jarring, so profound. I mean, it’s awfully easy to tell Meg that I love her. Yet I can’t put my finger down on a specific time (before the parental conversation) when I’ve told another person: “I love her.” It was an utterly new and glorious feeling. Try it. Though similar, “I love you” and “I love her” evoke different gut reactions. Nowadays this proud announcement of romantic love has a habit of quite simply rolling off my tongue. A very good thing indeed.


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4 09 2008
larry

you sir are a jerkface. welcome to wordpress.

5 09 2008
kingpui85

gosh larry you’re so hot headed.

17 09 2008
Elaine Low

so proud of u man! u haf grown in wisdom n i believe da christian community at Baptist congretation haf nurtured u well :) i still remember Bill Gothard’s basic life principles teaching n cant help to smile as I hear u seeking Mega’s parents blessings even b4 u pop da question… btw, love da pic megan put up in her FB profile :P

20 09 2008
Poon

wow, i totally got rickrolled

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